Discover the Magic of Following Your Bliss
There is no right or wrong path as they all lead to the very same place. However, there are paths that may be more enjoyable to get you there. Following the more joyful path is simple. Do what makes you happy. Period.
Feel into each seemingly mundane next step and do what feels the very best in that moment for any given situation. Is it off the beaten path? Oftentimes, yes. In fact, most times it is. That is why the leading edge of creation isn't crowded. Yet it is so simple to achieve. Follow your bliss, your joy, your nudges, your earnest.
Even if it is out of the ordinary... getting a banana milkshake, for example. Something you may never do, but the impulse to do is there and you veer off your deeply entrenched norm and go for it.
That is only a euphemism for following your bliss. Each of you have a different desire or dharma or reason for being. Yours and yours alone.
If you are in physical pain, it is there to bring something to your attention to release, to let go of. Forgive yourself, forgive others. Release and allow. Go get the milkshake, buy the dress, enjoy. Do what you do for the sheer purpose of having fun, and it will set you on the most clear, although leading edge and possibly less crowded path to where you want to go without the struggle. Without the heaviness of "have tos," "should haves," or obligation.
You are each on your own journey, so enjoy it as such. Release and allow. Life is meant to be magical. And it is if allowed. Discover the magic you create by enjoying it.