Adjusting and Growing through your Feelings: It’s Really that Simple

There are always examples of others for you to look up to who have seemingly gotten closer to where you’d like to be; how you feel about them determines your ability to attain. Better said, you can always see aspects in others that you admire, which means that these qualities are very attainable for you. In your ever-expanding evolution, you are continually being called to expand into more through us. It’s not judged as better; there is no judge, but it is simply a way of the path. Players on the same game board may be there for you to know, without doubt, that “if they can, I can” attain, be, do, and have.

It all depends on how you feel when you see them. Does it give you hope? Do you feel happiness for them? Do you gain knowledge that you may want to tweak in your own experience to guide you in that way? This isn’t about following or emulating them, but rather about giving you a clear relational life example. Or does it feel like jealousy or thoughts of "why them and not me"?

One feeling lets you know you are moving in the right direction and on the right frequency to BE, while the other clearly indicates that you may want to make some inward adjustments. Both feelings are needed, as they indicate where you are on your journey and what adjustments, if any, need to be made.

Life is a constant process of tuning and adjusting, recognizing and dialing in. Even feelings of jealousy or disdain are necessary as guidance. Your only job is to recognize and adjust. It’s okay if you don’t adjust, as that is your prerogative. You may stay in a position—not static, as there is no such thing—but moving around on the same frequency for a while. You may grow tired of feeling bad, or you may thrive on it. One way or another, you will ultimately make a change.

If feelings and emotions don’t cause the change, a health issue or another challenge will arise that will prompt change—guaranteed. So, there is no need for fear. You can choose your path or navigate what seems accidental. There are no coincidences or accidents, only experiences. You might as well enjoy the flow and go with the feelings. Enjoy.”**